At the tender age of 18, I "borrowed" my parents' car, drove from the far south suburbs to downtown Chicago and bought my first gay video. It wasn't a cheap video, but it was worth it - it starred Jeff Stryker. I can't even count how many times I watched that video and, I'm surprised I didn't wear it out. Fifteen years later, I had the pleasure of meeting Jeff Stryker at the 2001 Grabbys here in Chicago, and I have to tell you it was a dream come true. No, nothing happened, although I did talk to him while he was bare-ass naked and rock hard, but he was the nicest, most down to earth guy you'd ever want to meet.